Things To Consider When

It is in many ways our culture validates sacrifice and sometimes encourages people to give up their dreams for the sake of others. Nothing will disempower a person quicker. Whether it is done for approval or because of a desire to be loved and looked after, it diminishes a person when they do not choose to live their own lives. This insidious pattern  which negates its growth and happiness-- resentment runs deep, as blame and guilt are acted out in a punishing and nasty cycle.

Everyone and everything without exception, is attracted to your energy.

Things happen. Clues drop in all around; however, sometimes they creep past like shy animals, sometimes they fall on you from above and sometimes they penetrate your armor like a weapon. Sometimes because of our fears we avoid confrontations or difficulties. What this means is that words have power. They can hurt us or heal us.

Openly acknowledge the pain of our past hurts and release the grief we carry. You have to go through the things you need to go through. Everything that appears before your life is to be experienced to the fullest. The situation is now your mentor..

Or you can realize that the situation has left you feeling sad. It is okay to express your emotions. Allow yourself  to just feel. Respect this. Honor what yo are feeling. Allow yourself to cry over the this sadness, removing the energy from your chest and by doing so, you stop focusing upon it.

Acceptance is only part of the process. It is here that you will learn and evolve. And your new realization might be; A new day. New beginnings. Oh good, something changes.



A Thought for the Day

Recognize that today is unlike any other day you ever had.