A beautiful anonymous poem I read........ Focus on what is there and not what "should" be (Hmmmmmm). We all want to be valued and regarded.
"A little less impatient with those we deem too slow;
A little less arrogant because of all we know;
A little less conceited since our worth is slight;
A little less intolerant even when we are right;
A little more forgiving and swifter to be kind;
A little more desirous of the word praise to find;
A little more eager to help others to rejoice;
A little more careful to speak with gentle voice;
A little more effort to see another's view;
A little more willingness to extend to helping hand;
A little more committment to our people and our land;
A little more eagerness to listen and understand;
A little more resole to do what must be done;
And a greater understanding that truly we are one."